some of these things are better not to say If you often tell something about yourself with others, you will probably feel like you have said things that shouldn't be told. Yes, you realize that there is too much information.
It doesn't hurt if you take care of some things for yourself and on many occasions, it's actually better. Sometimes keeping things about you private can help you achieve success
so Here are the things you should always keep to yourself:
The biggest destinations
If you have a big goal it is much better not to tell it with others. You are also more likely to achieve it in this way. This can be very difficult because you are very passionate about it but as you work hard to achieve your goals the opinions of others make you feel confused and those opinions are relative and different for each person this is interesting to note.
The study of achieving goals shows that when you tell a story you want to achieve and then you get praise it makes your brain experience a spike in endorphins. When you achieve your goal you become feel like you've done something and then you don't want to do anything this is as difficult as achieving your goal
Good deeds
Try not to talk much about the good things you have done to others because this can make you look arrogant and arrogant others can easily see your good without you having to explain it
If you're doing good just to brag about yourself does that count? Keep being kind and humble
Personal life
Your personal life is your own business. There are certain things you better keep to yourself such as: what you do on the mattress, your religious life and your bad habits telling your personal life will get you into the circle of judgment and criticism
Taking care of some aspects of your personal life can make you much classier and worthy of more respect
wealth
Some people may be richer than others and maybe you are not one of the lucky ones. If you are rich it is good but not wise If you show off your wealth too much and it is better to keep it for yourself this because money can ruin friendships and brotherhood if people around you find out you have excess wealth they will probably be jealous
If you have it Enjoy it but don't brag about it your wealth status has no relationship with anyone except with yourself
Life Beliefs
everyone needs to believe in something to be able to get through the day but this belief is different for everyone that's why your personal preferences and beliefs are things you should keep to yourself don't spend your time convincing others to think the way you think
family problems
All families have drama but this is not something you should tell with others because the more you tell about your family problems the more difficult the problem is because it is unethical to tell the problems that occur in your family can also demean you personally
of course if something is wrong it doesn't matter if you share it with people close to you as a way to get support but if you tell it too much It can backfire on you
Other people's secrets
Don't be a person who likes to talk about other people's private lives, don't gossip about them Remember to stay focused on your own affairs. if someone confides in you about their personal affairs then your job is to keep their secret If you share this information with others then your trust and relationship with your friend will be damaged. however there are exceptions if the situation is life-threatening or puts one's life at risk
Fear and weakness
Everyone has different weaknesses and fears but telling them is not something that will make you feel comfortable. In fact people love to see the weaknesses of others
so don't tell it you can learn your weaknesses and fears and if that doesn't work Look for a professional to help you
Hatred about the past
Constantly digging into the past will not help you. In fact past experiences can easily affect you so don't let it ruin your moment. The best thing you should do is to enjoy your life in the present moment in this way you can prevent your regrets and your hatred of the past from appearing. Forgive others so that you feel at peace
special talents
This is actually something you can share with others but if you have a special talent don't tell it constantly talk about it when the time is right because action is much harsher than words apply this principle wherever you can
but don't get me wrong this doesn't mean you have to alienate yourself from the world it's just that you have to have certain boundaries because no matter how good a person they remain unpredictable and no matter how big the circle of people around you we all remain alone
Thank you for reading, hopefully this article can make you wiser, if you agree click like and share it with your friends so that they also become wise like you
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